Feeling feminine? Girly? Lady-like? No? Me neither. Why is it that the term feminine makes you feel like you just stepped into a room full of pink pillows, sofas with doilies and fuzzy slippers. Ok, so I really like fuzzy slippers but that’s not the point. The image of femininity has somehow become synonymous with lace, bows and periods. It’s time for this to stop. Let’s come up with our own understanding of what it feels like to be feminine. This is quite a large feat so it may take a while but it’s worth a try.
- The quality or condition of being feminine.
- A characteristic or trait traditionally held to be female.
- Women considered as a group.
Now, this does not mean that we have to stop wearing pink, nor does it mean that we have to burn our bras. This does mean that we have to evolve some sort of understanding of what makes us feel feminine.
All my life I have always been the definition of a “girly girl”. I love wearing make up, dresses and high heels. I love diamonds and new purses. Shoes are my passion. I have adored the color pink and admired the appearance of puppies and small children. However, I also like to help paint rooms, put together IKEA furniture and wear sweats. I just don’t understand how this makes me unfeminine just because I like to get my hands dirty every now and then.
It is important to note my sexy ladies, that a word does not define you. You define you. Tony Robbins believes that how something makes you feel defines how real it is. Reality is made through our emotions. If you are looking to feel more feminine. Let’s try this exercise.
I say all the women reading this takes out a piece of paper and write down this phrase…
“I feel most like a woman when…”
I feel most like a woman when I wear something that feels good on my skin
I feel most like a woman when I wear perfume that smells so sexy
I feel most like a woman when I dance around the room in my sexiest underwear
I feel most like a woman when I give myself an orgasm
I feel most like a woman when I get a manicure, pedicure and new haircut
I feel most like a woman when I get kissed like a woman
Try it. See what you come up with. When you are done, promise yourself you will practice an act of femininity once a week. You will be happier and feel sexier.
Live sexy, your worth it. Get em’ Girl